Hi Russ,
I love your pictures of Sarah, she was beautiful. I lost my wonderful cat Tank a week ago today, so the grief is still incredibly raw and so painful as you can imagine. Sometimes I wish I never had dogs and cats in my life, it hurts so much when they go.
I have found these forums very helpful in the past when I suffered losses. Just knowing you are understood and that you can open your heart out without judgement is a precious thing.
Unfortunately my husband sees this as a negative thing - that I am wallowing in my grief and making it deeper. Not possible, of course. But, I actually feel guilty being on here because he is so disapproving. And friends and family all think - it's been a week, she ought to be moving on, getting over it. I think we are the healthy ones - the ones who are able to feel and express our grief.
I hope you are having a better day and the heart you found gave you some comfort. These little signs - often rainbows and butterflies for me - can be so uplifting.
Take care,
Jane
I love your pictures of Sarah, she was beautiful. I lost my wonderful cat Tank a week ago today, so the grief is still incredibly raw and so painful as you can imagine. Sometimes I wish I never had dogs and cats in my life, it hurts so much when they go.
I have found these forums very helpful in the past when I suffered losses. Just knowing you are understood and that you can open your heart out without judgement is a precious thing.
Unfortunately my husband sees this as a negative thing - that I am wallowing in my grief and making it deeper. Not possible, of course. But, I actually feel guilty being on here because he is so disapproving. And friends and family all think - it's been a week, she ought to be moving on, getting over it. I think we are the healthy ones - the ones who are able to feel and express our grief.
I hope you are having a better day and the heart you found gave you some comfort. These little signs - often rainbows and butterflies for me - can be so uplifting.
Take care,
Jane
Hi Jane, I know you hurt, and it takes as long as it takes, that can't be altered. Like you my hurt is deep. No one would want to feel this, but if that's the price of real pure love then it cannot be helped. I wouldn't want to be able to brush something off and I'm glad I can't. Maybe others will understand someday how we feel. I do know that like my Sarah your tank is with you too, that is love. Bless you.