Dearest Tonnie, when I read your post to me it made me cry. Not because it made me sad, but because you are the only one getting that Bue found one of my tumors.

When someone is genuine about what they say, and how they feel it always shines through like a beautiful star in the sky.

My friends mom gave me some of his ashes, his mom is a very strong lady, I learned alot from her.

Toonie, you are right on the money when you sopke about him, although he had tattoos, and seemed like a biker type, he was not. We used to work out together, and he would kick my butt, lol.

Toonie you are such an asset for this forum, I'm blessed to have you in my online life, thank you so much.

Hugz right back at ya

lets keep it kind here please. this is one of the most watched posts on the board, and you all are friends. please attempt to work out the differences via private message and/or email. thanks.

Where's a Lyger when ya need one, lol.

Seriously though, there are a number of members here who are interested in an explanation....as LS pointed out we are supposed to be friends here yet lately there have been others (not you) who have posted negatively to some here who only asked a question and now we see what seems to be a negative comment which was not responded to negatively. And when an explanation was requested (which was suggested by LS), the above post does not address the issue. People come here because they are hurting as you also know because you have been through the pain also. You post pictures to bring smiles to people and they do indeed. That's why what you posted to Joanne does not make any sense at all and does not sound like you at all.

Something hurtful can't be made light of and we all feel the hurt because we feel each other's pain. If you are in pain we don't know about, please tell us but also please explain the post you wrote. It was LS's suggestion as a number of members have commented upon it in complete wonderment and bafflement. It is just not you and it saddens all greatly.

as i requested earlier, please take your discussions private so as not to disrupt the flow of the forum. this post is closed until further notice. c'mon ladies, work this out please.

this thread will reopen once both parties involved send a message that things are worked out. closing the the thread is not a punishment, this was done to hasten the resolution.

i will not be reading or answering any other emails on this matter. please work it out amongst yourselves, then let me know. thanks.