hi everyone
this is a nonpet related question but pls awnser
is a drinking problem in a family?
dee's Mommy
Avril

No i dont think so.

A friend from school her dad was an alcholic but non of his children are.

And a new friend ive met recently her husband is and although her son is extremely shy (possibly due to his dads condition) he is an adorable person who will not drink at all.

I hope thats what you meant

Love Sue

YES thank you
i keep having thesame dream over and over again!
Dee's mommy
Avril

Dear Avril, I know having alcoholic parents
are said to influence people. But I think
we all have a will to do the right thing.
We don't have to follow their ways.

I am a survivor of child abuse. I could have
chosen to or let myself be the same way
to my children. But I promised myself I
would be a better mother than that.

It takes strength and courage to fight
for yourself for a better way of life.
So if you are worried that you might
develope a drinking problem in life
you just tell yourself you have strength and
will never drink. With strength and love
we can be who we want to be. You have to
want something bad enough and go for it.
Love, Ann

I'm feeling like a murderer, I've got to put my kitty Xian down on Wednesday, 2 March 2005 (he's 13). His kidneys are shutting down, and it's breaking my heart. Am I doing the right thing?

Stitch

Hi Avril

Tell us about your dreams; sometimes the scary ones have good interpretations, like a coffin actually means a new beginning.

I have a book on dreams and may be able to help a little – no promises though.

Love Sue

Keep thinking positive thoughts – like attracts like.

Hi Stitch

No you are not a murderer.

What you are about to do is out of love and a need to see your precious Xian out of pain.

Many of us here have been through this and will try and help you through your pain.

Love Sue

hi
my dream is how dee died how she took her last breath then her heart stoped beatting
the sadnes the pain the vet room the light
Dee's Mommy
Avril

Sometimes it takes us a while to move on.

Our dreams they say are working out our problems from during the day, understandably you are still stuck in that day when you lost Dee.

Each night before you go to sleep ask your dreams to show both Dee and yourself moving on and remember that death in a dream is actually a new beginning.

The following quote is taken from a book called ‘The Complete Book of Dreams and Dreaming’ by Pamela J. Ball and under the heading Death she says: -

“In these present times, as peoples’ attitudes change, death in a dream indicates a challenge we must confront. We need to adjust our approach to life and to accept that there can be a new beginning if we have courage”

Love Sue

hi everyone
i got 3 cats here who are driving me crazy
COME ON SPRING
Dee's mommy
Avril

hey people just sitting at my computer feeling sorta empty
if u wanna chat message me pls
Dee's mommy
Avril

Hi Avril, I was wondering how you were doing since I haven't seen you on here for a long time. I wish I had more time so that I could chat with you but between this site and my husband, children, grand chilren, and my furbabies I just am so busy all the time. When summer comes I may not have as much time on here. Then I can take my frandbabies and furbabies to the park. It was good to see you again.
Love, Ann

hiya everyone i havnt been on much lately we are have finanacal trouble and my dad was in hospital and i got to go to tornto in april and we dont have the money boy its been stress full and ya knowing we dont have any money is nerv reaking and i cant spell i havnt had much sleep latly.
Dee's mommy
Avril
(a lick from speckles and purs from hobbes and minue and a meow from riley)

Hi Avril, I am sorry you are having money problems and that your dad was in the hospital. Maybe your mom will find a way for you to go to Toronto. Thanks for the licks, purrs and meows from your babies.
Love, Ann

hiya ya its just hard i want to adopt another dog my mom says its too soon o well keep replying how are you doing?
HAPPY EASTER EVERYONE
Dee's mommy
Avril

hi everyone i cant beleave in august it will be 1 year i dont know how i mange i feel like it was yesterday
Dee's mommy
Avril