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msrtha
5 years ago I put down the best dog I ever had. He was scheduled for surgery to remove a splenic mass and had a major bleed. It was his time. I still cry every time I think of how his soft body felt when I snuggled him.

Fast forward. We have an entirely new pack of dogs. There are 3 right now.

Onyx came to us after my dog died. I have little boys and they wanted to play with our other senior dog. They needed something with more energy. Fergie joined us when our senior died. She is all sass. Recently we were joined by something that runs like a gazelle and goes perfectly with 2 young boys.

Thursday, Onyx started having issues walking. He is 5. It has gotten progressively worse. The emergency vet is someone that we love. She is honest, kind, and straightforward. She said it doesn't look good. He is having other neurological symptoms now too.

I suffer from depression. Badly. These dogs and my kids are often the only things that make me claw and fight my way out of the blackness that drags me down often. I don't seen to fight as hard when I know I can come home to them. They make me happy.

The thought of losing my bandaid boy is really having adverse effects on me this time. I am physically ill and dreading test results. I don't even want to talk to my get when he simply calls to check on him.

Sigh....

Martha
moon_beam
Hi, Martha, please permit me to offer you my sincerest concerns about the health status of your precious Onyx. I can very much relate to how you're feeling when you share with us: "The thought of losing my bandaid boy is really having adverse effects on me this time." When our companions have serious medical issues, we experience a journey that is called Anticipatory Grief. This is a roller coaster ride all of its own filled with fear of "what will / may happen", and hope that things truly are not as bad as they seem / are. Our stress levels increase which can cause physical illness ranging anywhere from mild symptoms to more unpleasant ones.

The waiting on test results can be very nerve-wracking indeed, so it is important that you do what you need to do to take care of yourself, Martha, because your precious Onyx does not want you getting you sick. You will need all your strength and energy to do what is necessary for him.

Thank you so much for honoring us in sharing what is happening with your precious Onyx. Please know we are here for you to share with you whatever happens with him. Please know your precious Onyx and you are in my thoughts and prayers, and please let us know how the both of you are doing.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam
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