I received this message from lovebug in my email:

I'm not sure how to do this.I already sent a message to the LS support
group.They told me I should post it on the message board,but I don,t
know how as I am a new member.Please help me retrieve that message and
show me how to post it.My heart feels so heavy and empty.My baby Chevy
was only going to be 7 months on September 13-2003.He was killed by a
driver September 06-2003 who didn't even stop.They just left my baby after
they killed him.I feel so much anger toward everyone because they don't
understand the hurt that's consuming me.Please help me!!I miss him so
much!

And I responded:
I will post your message for you. Then you can log in and just hit reply when you want to say more, ok? Sue (SJ&S) is the forum moderator and maybe able to help...
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I will add:

I am sorry that is all I can do in as far as tech help... When you log in there should be a first page that has various topics and such -- we post under "death and dying support". And on other topics as well, but that is the main one...

Dear lovebug,

I am so sorry for your loss. I know Chevy was special and it will take some time before you start feeling normal (in any way) again. I still don't feel normal after 4 months. My husband said to me last night "I really missed them today..."

Eventually, some days are better than others, and I understand that at some point, when you remember, you actually smile instead of cry.

One thing that I think has helped a lot of the people on the board is to memorialize their pet, in all the ways they can think of : scrap books, grave markers, urns, gardens, trees, memorial bricks, stones, whatever -- whatever feels right to you. Since Chevy was hit by a car, and it sounds like you know where, maybe you could put up a little marker, a flower, a tree there --? If not, there are other things you can do in memorial.

I am sorry those ugly people did this and didn't even stop. It IS ok to be angry. What kind of person would you be if you were NOT angry???? He was just a little baby!!!

I am so sorry for your loss. You really did not get to share your life with him the way I am sure you both wanted to. But he is happy on the bridge now, and is waiting for you and will greet you madly when you join him.

Love,
Jennifer

HI Lovebug.
I have sent you two emails trying to get you on the right track and hope that one of them helps.

Unfortunately there are all too many cruel heartless people out there that don’t understand life past their own noses.

I understand that for a while you are going to hate the people that killed poor little Chevy, but please don’t let them consume you for too long they really aren’t worth your thoughts.

There must be someone you know that has a pet or pets that would understand, if there really isn’t someone then I hope you manage to post on here as you really need someone to talk to, someone who understands as we all do.

Don’t be too angry with your friends and family for not understanding the hurt you are feeling, I personal feel sorry for people that have never experienced that loving bond we have all had with our pets.
I pity your friends for their loss.

Take care
And good luck with posting.
Love Sue