Hey, I am sure most of you have read my thread about losing Barney (''He's gone'' post).

Well this Sunday, 6 days after Barney died, my parents are going to get a new Yorkshire puppy.

I am not sure if this is a good or bad thing. It feels like I havent had time to properly adjst to life without Barney, and getting a new puppy may upset me more and cause me to not show it as much love as I did Barney, which just wouldn't be fair on the dog.

HELP!

Have you talked to your parents about the way you feel about this? I can see they are trying to make you feel better, and maybe it will, but it would be a good idea to talk it out with them.

Nothing in the world can take away your love for Barney -- nothing. Barney will always be your little Barney. No one can take his place, but it is okay to love someone else, another little animal child. There are so many just begging for someone like you to love them. I am so sorry that Barney is not here for you, but if another dog should come or be brought into your life, just remember Barney wants you to be happy. Barney wouldn't mind at all. He knows you have a big heart and lots of love to give. I can just hear Barney saying, "Be happy, please be happy. I know you love me no matter what."

You will get some more advice here, I'm sure. I hope this helps too. It's so hard, I know.
Love,
Marcia

They are not buying another dog solely ''for me'', my mum doesn't work and spends most of the day around the house, and Barney used to follow her everywhere and when her mum died 6 weeks ago he helped her cope with the grief. So my mum just doesn't want to be alone in the house.
My dad, in his own way, is also very upset. But of course dads are not allowed to show it.

I feel like I can't wait to get another little friend and start a new adventure. However I do feel like it is just too soon, for ME. But I don't want to neglect this puppy if we get it on sunday, which I wouldnt dream of. But I dont want to spend so much time getting to know him that I forget about Barney. I know in my heart I wont, its just a scary prospect that he would be replaced within a week of his tragic,untimely death.

I'm sure your mom and dad loved Barney too, and you're right, Dad's often don't feel they can show their feelings. I expect a new pup will help your mom and dad, and probably you as well. As you said, you wouldn't "dream of" neglecting a new puppy. I know you wouldn't. I also know you won't forget Barney. Barney was a unique little being. Even tho it will be another Yorkie, that's okay too. The little animal guys and girls are each and everyone different, with their own special personalities and cute faces. Barney was your "love" for a long time. You won't forget about Barney. Tell the new kid all about Barney and talk to him/her about Barney. Ask Barney to look out over your family. He will be in your heart always, Barney will.