This was one of the hardest weeks of my life. After nearly a year of harmony, my 2 female pitbulls decided to fight. Or more precisely, the younger one, Genie, decided to try to kill my sweet Layla. She didn't succeed, but she did mess Layla up pretty badly. I was almost going to euthanize Genie, as all of the local rescue groups were useless. Then a friend found a post on Craigslist about a new rescue group 2.5 hours away....Yes, they could take Genie!

All during the drive, she was licking my face. I love this dog so much, but with my disability, I cannot handle two fighting dogs. And Layla has been my cuddle-buddy for over 4 years, so there was no question of finding a new home for her.

The foster parents have promised to stay in touch, and I've spoken with them once since I left Genie with them. Still, it all feels so surreal. Do I grieve for Genie, or not? Has anyone else been through something similar?

I just thank God Layla is alive. She has many wounds, and is wearing one of those e-collars; but she's here with me, on the couch, and last night she slept in my bed where she belongs. I only hope I can forget the horrible sounds of my babies fighting as I waited in my room for help to arrive. Why did this have to happen???

I have no experience or advice to give you on this matter, but just wanted to say I am so sorry what you are going through.

Sending prayers for Layla and for Genie too, you did the right thing...sometimes a certain two dogs together just do not work, doesn't mean it can't work for Genie with another dog though.... and I'm sure the rescue has something in place to help a dog like Genie who may be dog aggressive. It may be that Genie is not the type of dog to benefit with other dog company and that's ok, she may like to be in a home without other dogs, and I'm sure the rescue will be sure they find the perfect home for her.

I know you are hurting about the whole situation. Sending healing prayers for Layla...and good thoughts for you.

Hugs,
Sonya

Hi,

I'm afraid I haven't been through anything like this either, but I just wanted to echo Sonya in saying that you asbolutely did the right thing. You had no choice. I know you must miss Genie madly, but it's good that the foster parents have agreed to stay in touch. Sorry you're going through this - it's a horrible situation.

Sending you hugs. Cheryl x

Hi:

I'm very sorry to hear what you are going through.

I do believe that those awful sounds will go away, but it'll take some time. Not having experienced anything like this, I can only imagine how frightened you were. Perhaps journaling would help - writing out your thoughts and feelings, etc... I found that writing has helped me a lot when going through difficult phases of my life.

I agree with Sonya & Cheryl in that you have done the best thing for all involved. I know you must miss Genie a lot, but you have given her a chance at a new life. She will ALWAYS love you and remember you! I'm glad that the foster parents will stay in touch with you to let you know how she's getting along.

I hope that your precious Layla is getting better. Please let us know how you're both doing.

Peace & Love to you and yours,

Denise