On January 11, 2010 our lives were forever changed around 5:00 am our precious Chihuahua Elly died, she would have been twelve years old on April 2nd. We are having a hard time excepting the fact that she's gone and won't be coming back. Every day for almost twelve years she would greet us at the door and now I have an empty feeling when I come home from work. She became part of our family when she was six weeks old. She was so laid back and easy to love, we're trying to remember all the good times we shared with her and how much joy she brought to our home. We went through this in 2006 with our beloved Lollie when she passed, we had her for six years and I really thought I was going to have a nervous breakdown during that time. I know in time we will deal with the loss of Elly but as for right now it just hurts so much! I've been on here reading some of the postings and wanted to post something about Elly but all I could do was cry but tonight I felt like I really needed to do this even as I type tears fall down my face from the pain I feel in my heart. I just ask that everyone prays for my family as we try to except what has happened and be able to cherish the memories of our precious Angel Elly Mae! Thanks to all for your support and understanding, for this was what got me through Lollie's passing.

Rose

Hi Rose--

I am so so sorry about the passing of your beloved Elly Mae. I've known a few chihuahua's who were just the most precious things I'd ever met--it's hard to believe that they belong to the same species as, say, my Ladywolf! My sympathy to your whole family. Sounds like you know from past experience that you WILL get through this, but right now that's really hard to believe, I know--your loss is so fresh and new.

I lost my Poppers girl about 5 weeks ago, and am now facing the loss of Ladywolf, who has cancer. The process is unbelievably painful. In my case, I have no other living family but Lady, so when she goes, I wouldn't be surprised if I just completely collapse. Maybe I won't though, since her illness is likely to last for awhile, and maybe I'll have time to get used to the idea. Probably not though--the reality is SO MUCH more painful than the "idea."

Your Ellie Mae is now with your last dog--was it Lollie? (I'm sorry, I don't have your post in front of me right now. They are probably having a good time with each other, and they are watching over you.

Give yourself time to grieve--don't expect to feel 100% yourself for some time to come. It would be unnatural if you DIDN'T grieve, painful as the process is.

Thank you for coming back to join us!

Margi and Ladywolf

Hi Margi,

Thank you so much for your kind words and I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Poppers, I know exactly how you feel it does get easier with time but it sure hurts right now as I'm sure you know. I am also sorry to hear about Ladywolf's health issue, just cherish every moment with her and I'm sure she knows how much you love her.

My other dog's name was Lollie, she was a little angel too! They come into our families and our hearts and they're just like our children they only know unconditional love as long as you love and take care of them that's all they ask of us and in return they will be your best friend as long as they live you can't ask for more than that...huh?

I wish you the very best and thank you so much for your words of encouragement!

Take care!
Rose

Dear Rose

I am so sorry for the loss of your darling Elly. I am thinking of you and sending prayers to help you through this dreadful time.
As Margi says your Ellie will be watching over you with your Angel Lollie, in a place where they are free from any suffering or pain or illness. Keep trying to think of those 'Happy' times you shared, and please let us know how you are getting on.
When you feel able maybe you could post a photo on here, I just love Chihuahuas.
Hugs Jan and my Angels xx

So sad for you Rose, I know how devastating it is to lose a beloved pet like Elly Mae. Chihuahuas are cute little dogs, I have a Chihuahua X Fox Terrier and she just loves everybody. I have been where you are now and I thought I would die with grief, but with the help of the people on this forum I managed to survive. Maybe you could put some photos on your babies on here when you feel able, I would love to see Elle Mae and Lollie. I like to think of all our angels playing together at the Rainbow Bridge, It's what keeps me going. You have my deepest sympathy and love xx

madi xx

Rose-
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Its hard to fathom how much it hurts to lose them until we do. At least when you come here you know you are in the company of people who know how much you are hurting and how lonely you feel. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I hope you find some measure of peace, or at least a few moments when you can take a deep breath.

Best,
Alison

Rose

I am so sorry for your loss .I do understand how you feel I just lost my Benjiman on th 12th.
I am sure Elly Mae and Lollie and Benjiman are all together free form pain and playing at the rainbow bridge .
My prayers are with you and your family in this time of grieving .


Take Care
Sabbie

Thanks so much for all the support you've all given me, words of encouragement it really means a great deal to me. I've been a little better today but I know my depression and sadness will come and go for quite a while. I remember when I lost my little Lollie it took me a very long time to get a grip and be able to move on. It's kind words from others and knowing that others out there are going through the same pain as we are! I pray for each of you I know your pain as you know mine, so with the support of each other we'll eventually be able to move on.

Thanks again everyone!
Rose