This is the first Saturday/weekend without having my precious baby girl, Bailey here with me. I miss her not being here to wake up early with, have coffee with, watch television with, lie in the sun so happily and looking up at me, lying in my lap and sleeping peacefully, taking an afternoon nap with me, and on and on and on and on.

As I know most of you know, life is just so different now. The house feels so very large and lonely. I absolutely loved for the weekends to get here so Bailey and I had a lot of time to hang out and do nothing together. She loved it too! We were two peas in a pod. I liked what she liked and she liked what I liked!

My two cats are being very loving and trying very hard to help soften my pain and for that I'm very thankful but life just isn't the same on this first saturday alone without my baby girl, Bai Bai.

For all of you feeling my same pain today, I send you a big hug.

Bailey's Mom Forever!

I am so sorry to hear of you sweet Bailey. Yes you count the days then the weeks. It will get easier in time. It has been only 3 1/2 weeks for me, but it is getting a tiny bit easier. (still very hard tho) Just remember all the great times you two spent together.

Many hugs back at ya!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So sorry again for your loss, I too lost my Baby Buster Nine days ago and I know exactly how you feel right now and my heart goes out to you, we need to get such huge strength to keep going without our Babys that it will be not easy but we most. Things will not be the same now, our lives had changed for ever but what no one can take away from us ever is the love we have for them all, please take care my friend, Jorge

Hey Lisa,

I can so identify with what you just posted. Chuck and I could have written that ourselves and we so understand your pain right now. This weekend I think will probably harder than last week for us since we have 4 days off, so the house will feel extra empty.

Fourth of July has always been an akward day for us because Candy would get so scared of the fire works, that we made it a point every year to just hold her in bed and comfort her till she can fall asleep. It will be weird not having to worry about that this year.

Take care and know you and your partner are in Chuck and I thoughts.

God bless.

Hal

Candy's Dad

This was the hardest part for me also. Looking at Duncan's empty dog house, his bed in the house, his favorite toys which i keep finding even weeks after his passing and our times out in the woods where he was happiest which made me happy.
As time goes on, sooner or later it'll all start to evaporate into memories which when envisioned, instead of bringing tears will instead bring a smile. Before this can happen though we have to empty our emotions and come to the hard realizations by enduring the painful grieving process. Then and only then will those memories of our pets cease to be painful.

Take care,
-Ken