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Precious' mom
Hi everyone! I haven't posted here in quite a while because so much in my life has changed since Precious and Tigger died last year (Precious on 06 August, Tigger on 13 December). Patches came into my life on 09 September and has turned out to be such a loving baby.
Something very strange happened two weeks ago (this Saturday). I went to my house to open the blinds for the day (I don't live there but still own it) and was walking from the carport to the back door when all of a sudden I spotted two little black lumps in the backyard, one by the patio, one by the back fence. I heard a faint mewling and yes it was a black kitten. I scooped it up and went to the other one, who did not move an inch. I thought it was dead but I picked it up and it was cringing in fear, tight as a curled-up caterpillar! I took both of them to the house and inside where it was cool. Both are six weeks old at most with hazel eyes and a small tuft of white at the throat (I think brother and sister but not sure!!). They were so thirsty so I put them in the bathroom with a water dish and went immediately to the store and bought some Kitten Chow and milk and disposable plates/bowls and cat litter. I went back to the house and they were asleep in a pile in the corner (so cute!). I fed them and prepared a makeshift cat box, which one of them used straight away. Since then, they have residence of my guest bedroom with plenty of toys (most of them Precious' old ones), a nice kitty cup and even a pink night-light so they won't be scared when I'm not there at night. I go over there three times a day to make sure they're well. They have taken to me and I to them. They're really opening up and I have tried placing them but since I live in the Southeast US, there's some sort of stigma about black cats so there's not exactly any waiting-lists for any so it appears I may end up keeping them. Which poses the question: Patches got along with multiple cats when he was being fostered so will he adapt to two baby kittens? (Patch is five years old.)
If you had told me this time last year that there would be such a dramatic change, I would have laughed until my sides hurt. But life goes by so very fast and we don't know what will happen day to day. All of you who have lost dear ones who were virtually children (as Precious was to me, and Tigger too though he was my dad's cat), please treasure every single moment with them! Hug them, kiss them, tell them how much you love them. They already know it but they love hearing it too! I told that to Precious every day he was with me, almost 19 years. I miss him so much but know he is looking down on me and thinking, She's broken the bank with three! I love them but not as much or on the level as Precious. Nothing can ever take his place. I'm considering myself blessed and that all of these babies are a gift. I hope all of you have adopted newbies as part of the family too and that all of you are recovering from such a horrible blow to your life.
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John B
What a wonderful story, Lisa. Those kitties sound so cute...and only 8 weeks old. I'll bet they can be holy terrors at times. lol.

It really is nice to hear stories about the wonderful part of life.
Furrys Mum
Dear Lisa,
The kittens sound so lovely, I hope they will be able to move in with you & Patches.
After my best beloved Furry died I adopted Bella, & I am glad, but sad too that she is with us. Seeing her having mad moments & chasing about, at age 13 plus, makes me realise how poorly Furry had been for so long. I think I was in denial & never believed she would die so young - I wish she could have stayed until she was 19 like your Precious. Like you say, the love is different. Like you with Precious, I don't think I'll ever stop missing Furry or ever love anyone else as much.
Judith
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Hi Lisa. I remember you when I first joined the forum. Chase died and you were one of the people that helped me. Unfortunately 3 months later my older ferret Abigail perished as well. I still grieve somewhat that loss today.

It is apparent that you are one of the chosen "Gaurdians" that I speak of periodically in my posts. You have been chosen by a higher Authority to care for that which cannot care for itself. But I always knew that, for I have read your posts and I saw the lengths you covered to show your love for your furbabies, present and past. I remember the difficulty you had uploading a picture during that time, that is now your avatar. I know this place is about the animals but I just had to stop for a moment and shift the gears to you. I am happy to see you again.

Take care my friend, it is good you are here. I will smile today knowing I was in the graces of one of the Creators' chosen "Gaurdians".
Precious' mom
Thank you everyone! I haven't posted in a while since I posted this topic but want to tell you the one-year anniversary of Precious' death (06 August) was bearable and i even took off work to pay homage to the baby I lost. Having Patches and the kittens around made it a lot easier. Patches has been with me almost a year now, and the kittens almost four months. (They're getting big!) Thank you for your concern and I hope all is well in your lives and with your babies!
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