Its almost been 3 hours now and I just found this site. My boxer Oskar had heart failure today and the vet couldn't save him. He was only 8.
He was fine yesterday, happy as usual then today he took a turn for the worse.
I don't even know what the reason is for me to be writing this on this forum, but I just am. He was such a great dog, now I just don't know what do to that he's gone. Everytime I think about him not being here it cuts into my heart.

I guess I'll just try to relax for the rest of the night, nothing else I can do.

I am so sorry for your loss, I know how hard it hurts.
Just keep coming back here it really does help.

You are in my thoughts.
Cleo1

I also, am so sorry for your sudden loss. It hurts, I know, but for some reason, you found this site. It will help you, believe me. It helps to write about everything you are feeling. Everyone here understands, and will help as much as they can.
Getting rest is the best thing you can do for yourself right now.
When you're up to it, plesae write and let us know more about Oskar, ok?
Again, you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Scooter's Mom

Thank you for the kind words. They do mean a lot.
Oskar was a great dog, he was somewhat stubborn as he got older, but that made me love him more.
I am going to donate to the local animal shelter in memory for him.
When I look back over the years, I am so happy that I had him in my life. He brought joy and love to my life and I will never forget that.

Mattew,

I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. This website has helped me alot since I lost my beloved Dugan a little over a week ago. Alot of times, I have found, that people don't know what to say to you but in this website everyone is very caring and supportive. I know that you will find that it helps.

You are in my prayers during this most difficult night.

Dugan's Mom

Hi Matthew,

I'm so sorry about Oskar and how you must be feeling. I posted my first time today also because my dog Brandi has cancer which has spread to her lung. She doesn't know it yet and is still feeling energetic and perky. It's sad but a dog's health can change so quickly that they don't give us time to prepare. My other dog died in November and I found by putting her picture on my computer desktop, she is always with me. Just remember that it's perfectly normal to be feeling the way you feel because you loved Oskar and he loved you. My prayers are with you.

Take care,
Jyl

You will see your dog again. This is only a short separation. I am so sorry for your loss.

Hi Matthew, my cat just went into heart failure a few days ago. He is only 2 1/2. That was the WORST day of my life. This kitty is like my child. We got him to the vet and then to an emergency cardiologist. After an overnight stay with oxygen they got the fluid out of his lungs and he came home. Unfortunately, he has heart disease (called hypertrophic cardiomyopathy) and we have no idea how long he has. In a way you are lucky to not have to go through the pain of "waiting" to see your pet suffer again. It is heart wrenching. I feel like I'm stuck in between a vice that's just squeezing my heart. I am happy to spend as many days as I have left with my baby, but I am broken hearted. They said he will eventually suffer a blood clot and probably become paralysed in his back legs. At that point we will have to put him down. Everyday seems to get harder, not easier. I don't know which is worse, to lose the baby right away, or to have him for just a few more days. I am here for you if you need to talk. Keep your chin up.
Love,
Andrea

Hi Matthew:

I'm sorry for your loss, my friend. I know how troubling this time must be for you.

Remember the best times you spent with your special friend. He shared his friendship, love (and yes, sometimes stubbornness!) with you to fill your life with great moments and memories. Cherish them.

Peace be with you.

Thanks again for the kind words.

I'm not getting as upset now that its been a few days. I try to think of the good memories and funny things he would do. I'm getting his ashes from the vet today, I'm still not sure what I'm going to do with them, but I'm sure I'll think of something.

Matthew,
I know words cannot express what you're feeling right now but know I am praying for you and Oskar. He sounded like he was the sweetest dog. I'm sorry he was so young but God chose him to be with the rest of his angels and took him home. Know you will reunited someday, and that he is safe and cared-for where he is!!
Lisa