For the past five years, I have had the honor of being a parent of the most amazing creature that I have ever know. The very first day that I met my girlfriend, she told me that her dog came along with her ; that they were "a package deal". I never batted an eye as my heart had already melted over her sweet golden retreiver, Abby. Abby was already 7 when I was fortunate enough to become a part of her life. We have lived togther for the better part of the last five years and she along with a stray that we picked up a year and a half ago are the only children that we have.

I had always like dogs but until I had Abby in my life, I had no idea the pure emotional attachment between a human and an animal could be so strong. Today, we found out that Abby has bone cancer in her right shoulder and it has made me realize that sooner rather than later, I am going to be faced with the day that I have to let go of her forever. Her mother has been through this before and knows the pain involved but I have never been faced with anything like this. Not only do I have to learn how to deal with Abby's illness, but I have to be there to comfort her mother as well. I honestly don't know which is going to be harder for me to accomplish but I hope that I can be a strong person for Abby and for her mother during our final days together as a family.

The best that you can do is live and love every minute of every day with monkey.

One day, hopefully some time away, you will go into auto mode and do what your heart tells you needs to be done and then you and your girlfriend will lean on and comfort each other, you dont have to be strong just be there and grieve together.

But until that day and enjoy lifes little treasures.

Love Sue

Your post made me cry. I lost my beautiful chocolate lab Lucy to lymphoma in February at the age of 5 years. I also posted to this site when I got the diagnosis. Your post reminded me of how I felt when I learned Lucy had cancer. I was lost in my grief. We made Lucy's last month a happy one, full of good food, trips to the beach, and lots of cuddling and kisses. You have started ona painful journey, and I wish you strength and love during this difficult time...

Thinking of Abby....Caroline