Please forgive me my love. For all the times I told you to go lie down when you wanted to run. Please forgive me for all the times I yelled at you for ripping the garbage apart and throwing it around the house. Please forgive me for the times I was mad at you for peeing on my pillow or the couch, because you were mad that your friend had left you alone. Please forgive. I would give anything to have those days back agian. Please my beautiful little girl. I loved you more then anything in this world and there was nothing I wouldn't have done for you. I love you so much Shandy

Dear Bluest Mom - Your Shandy knows that your love is forever ~ it is the unspoken gazes and the spiritual connection and that place where you touched the hearts of each other - our animals are much wiser than we ~ knowing our human limitations ~ always teaching and loving us more ~ its the love that still carrys on and give us the way to find our loved ones that have passed from our view only to be more present than before and forever free to stay by our sides where ever we may be ~ I am so sorry for your loss ~ Sincerely, Kathryn

Dear Kerry, You were a wonderful daddy to Shandy and I'm sure she forgives you for the small things that you think you did her wrong in doing. I know that with the love you had and have for her that she thinks only about the wonderful things you did for her while she was here on earth with you. She knows that you were a good daddy and wanted what was best for her. She has already forgiven you.

That is what is so wonderful about our sweet babies, they forgive us no matter how much we might need to get onto them. We are all human and sometimes we get upset over the things they do, it does not mean we did not love them. After all we don't want them to get into the garbage and get sick from eating the trash. There are many dangers for our beloved babies to get in to and we try our best to protect them. So at times we had to get onto them for their own good.

Terry I don't think our babies remember the scoldings that we gave them. I think they only remember the love, care, attention, and kindness that we gave them.

I too worried that my grandbaby Chili Bean would be upset with me because I told her the doctor would fix her up in no time. But instead she had to be put to sleep I was afraid she might have thought I lied to her. I wrote about my fears in one of my posts. Everyone told me she did not hold that against me because of her great love. Keep posting about your fears and all your feelings for your little girl. It really does help.
Hugs, Ann