My girl does not have the strength to get up now. I keep hoping that she will pull through it and give me a few more days with her, but I don't think it will happen, and even if it did I would only be going through this again. I feel so selfish, (give me a few more days). Lastnight I watched her stare at the birds through the window, her mind wanted to go out to point at them, but her body would'nt let her. My beautiful friend is so sick, I know it is time.

I replied on the death and dying board. I am so sorry.
Ann

Its a hard thing to do but if you know she is ready then we agree that she is.

Try not to cry and give her lots of cuddles and kisses.

We'll be thinking of you.

Love Sue

It is so hard to let them go.

Know though that what you are doing in your heart is best for them.

It would be so easy if they could just tell you, "I can get better", or that "It's time". Of course the decision is placed on us, which is a terrible one to have to face, not fully knowing what they feel. I believe deep down, we know, but just don't want to accept that.

Your decision will be the right one for her. Give her the best days that you can before the time comes. As hard as it is, seeing them suffer is equally as hard on both of you.

May you find peace with your decision.

Midwest