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Dear Abby's Mommy, Thank you so much for the kind words. I am so thankful we do have a place to come and bare our souls. If we have to hide the pain and not be honest with each other then we can never begin to heal. We should be able to say what is on our hearts and minds.
For most of us here our babies were just like our children. I myself have never felt such devastation in my entire life. Yet most of the outside world feels we should just act like our babies never were. That can never happen as my darling Snookie will always be my child. I loved her with all my heart and soul just as you did your precious Abby. She will always be your baby your child and she knows you loved her more than anything. Abby will always be there when you need her and her love will never fail.
Yet for now somehow we need to live life to the fullest for we know our babies would want that. Their love will carry us through until we are with them again. That does not mean we will not feel pain and longing for them. They were so full of love that somehow we must let the love heal our broken shattered hearts.
They gave us more love than anyone else in this whole world ever could. Our babies did not find fault with us and they loved us with all their hearts. I know my Snookie's eyes always told me she thought I was the most wonderful thing on the face of the earth.
I am so glad that you felt your precious Abby walking beside you and found a hair, her hair on the table. You are not crazy, nor should you be afraid to tell us such things. I know that she and our other babies live on and visit us. She may have been there so many times all along and you were to sad to know it.
Oh Abby's Mommy we have a invisable thread that ties them to our souls. That thread can never be broken and we will be with them again one day. I know it is hard and it hurts more than anything we have ever been through. But we will get through this and it will get better.
Somehow we will let their love and not their death fill our hearts and minds. We must let their love shine through our hearts even when the tears shine in our eyes. We were so loved and we were blessed and we are still loved.
Love, Ann
For most of us here our babies were just like our children. I myself have never felt such devastation in my entire life. Yet most of the outside world feels we should just act like our babies never were. That can never happen as my darling Snookie will always be my child. I loved her with all my heart and soul just as you did your precious Abby. She will always be your baby your child and she knows you loved her more than anything. Abby will always be there when you need her and her love will never fail.
Yet for now somehow we need to live life to the fullest for we know our babies would want that. Their love will carry us through until we are with them again. That does not mean we will not feel pain and longing for them. They were so full of love that somehow we must let the love heal our broken shattered hearts.
They gave us more love than anyone else in this whole world ever could. Our babies did not find fault with us and they loved us with all their hearts. I know my Snookie's eyes always told me she thought I was the most wonderful thing on the face of the earth.
I am so glad that you felt your precious Abby walking beside you and found a hair, her hair on the table. You are not crazy, nor should you be afraid to tell us such things. I know that she and our other babies live on and visit us. She may have been there so many times all along and you were to sad to know it.
Oh Abby's Mommy we have a invisable thread that ties them to our souls. That thread can never be broken and we will be with them again one day. I know it is hard and it hurts more than anything we have ever been through. But we will get through this and it will get better.
Somehow we will let their love and not their death fill our hearts and minds. We must let their love shine through our hearts even when the tears shine in our eyes. We were so loved and we were blessed and we are still loved.
Love, Ann
Dear Abby's Mommy,
WOW - Those signs from sweet Abby. How wonderful for you!!! I have no doubt she's telling you not to be sad anymore. As Ann said.........we were blessed and are still loved. I feel very encouraged after reading your post.
Love,
Lynn
WOW - Those signs from sweet Abby. How wonderful for you!!! I have no doubt she's telling you not to be sad anymore. As Ann said.........we were blessed and are still loved. I feel very encouraged after reading your post.
Love,
Lynn
Dear Abby's Mommy,
I am so glad that you had that good talk with your husband. It sounds like he really supports you and wants you to be healthy and strong.
I also firmly believe that Abby sent that hair to you. I know that stuff seems to pop out of nowhere for a long time, but from what you explained, this was a SIGN. She is there with you, she loves you and she wants you to be happy.
I really hope you are doing better and will keep posting. I get worried when you don't post for a while.
Take care
Audrey
I am so glad that you had that good talk with your husband. It sounds like he really supports you and wants you to be healthy and strong.
I also firmly believe that Abby sent that hair to you. I know that stuff seems to pop out of nowhere for a long time, but from what you explained, this was a SIGN. She is there with you, she loves you and she wants you to be happy.
I really hope you are doing better and will keep posting. I get worried when you don't post for a while.
Take care
Audrey
Abby's Mommy,
It sounds like you have really turned a corner and I am so happy for you. I think you really hit the nail on the head when you said that in order to honor our babies' memories we have to pull ourselves up and keep going, remembering the joy and happiness that they brought to us, and allowing ourselves to be happy again, because we deserve it, and because our little ones deserve the peace they will find when they look down upon us knowing that we'll be alright. I pray that you continue to heal and that Abby continues to show you the signs that mean she will always be present in your heart.
(((Hugs)))
Jenny
It sounds like you have really turned a corner and I am so happy for you. I think you really hit the nail on the head when you said that in order to honor our babies' memories we have to pull ourselves up and keep going, remembering the joy and happiness that they brought to us, and allowing ourselves to be happy again, because we deserve it, and because our little ones deserve the peace they will find when they look down upon us knowing that we'll be alright. I pray that you continue to heal and that Abby continues to show you the signs that mean she will always be present in your heart.
(((Hugs)))
Jenny
Dear Abby's Mommy:
I want you to know that my thoughts & prayers are surely with you......
I totally -- 110% believe that Abby DID send her hair to you!!!!
When I was just about to send you a reply.....I looked at sweet Abby's photo again, resting in Poppy's chair -----
Right at that time, the white blanket around her back, appeared to me as "Angel Wings"....
Honestly...........
Your sweet Abby is right around you ---- NO QUESTION.......
Flying with her Angel Wings!!!!
What a beautiful thought!!!
You are absolutely correct, Abby's mom.... Being so very sad is not honoring your precious girl's life......And, believe
me......she wants you to be soooooo happy!!!!
I'll bet that in the past.................when you were sad/depressed/crying.........your darling Abby wouldn't let stay like that for very long......They're right there with us, comforting us and loving us, until they see a tiny smile......
Am I right????
Our sweet babies "have that ability to "JUST KNOW"
Remember.........The love that you & Abby shared ---- Even death cannot separate!!
God Bless You!!
Love, Denise
I want you to know that my thoughts & prayers are surely with you......
I totally -- 110% believe that Abby DID send her hair to you!!!!
When I was just about to send you a reply.....I looked at sweet Abby's photo again, resting in Poppy's chair -----
Right at that time, the white blanket around her back, appeared to me as "Angel Wings"....
Honestly...........
Your sweet Abby is right around you ---- NO QUESTION.......
Flying with her Angel Wings!!!!
What a beautiful thought!!!
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And when I think about it, being sad and depressed all the time does not honor her life with us. I know there will be sad days ahead but I know that I have to pull myself up and move forward for my sake and my husbands. He's a wonderful man and deserves to have an active, involved wife as we go on in this life's journey.
You are absolutely correct, Abby's mom.... Being so very sad is not honoring your precious girl's life......And, believe
me......she wants you to be soooooo happy!!!!
I'll bet that in the past.................when you were sad/depressed/crying.........your darling Abby wouldn't let stay like that for very long......They're right there with us, comforting us and loving us, until they see a tiny smile......
Am I right????
Our sweet babies "have that ability to "JUST KNOW"
Remember.........The love that you & Abby shared ---- Even death cannot separate!!
God Bless You!!
Love, Denise
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