It has now been six weeks, and it seems like it is getting more difficult, not easier, Mijo. I will always love my sweet little baby cat, Mimi. And I can't wait until I see you and hold you in my empty arms again, little one!

Sent: Thursday, January 20, 2005 9:56 PM
Subject: Mijo - In Memory


Hello Friends,

It's rather difficult to write this, but there is no easy way to let you know otherwise. Mijo, my kitty, son and constant companion for the past eleven years died this afternoon.

It's been an extremely difficult 30 or so hours. Yesterday afternoon, Mijo began walking funny and was very listless. As my vet was closing, I took him to the Emergency After-hours Hospital where they ran a battery of tests, but were unable to diagnose the cause. Although they wanted to keep him in overnight for observation, I took him home where I spent the next eight hours holding him, cuddling him and talking to him. I have to say that I had a premonition that this might be our last night together so I didn't mind not getting more than a couple of cat naps...

This morning I took him to the regular vet who began more tests. Late this afternoon, he called and said that Mijo had had another seizure (he believed that is what caused the original problem) and was not looking good. After rushing over, I spent the next hour or so talking with and holding Mijo and determining that he could not recover - and could possibly have another seizure and be in more pain. He was too good a kitty to suffer, so the vet and I decided on euthanasia. This was a hard decision to make, but I believe that it was for the best. My mother was able to talk to him on the phone long-distance; his ears perked up at her voice, too, so he knows we were both there with him. So, I held Mijo and told him what a good baby cat he was until he slipped away. My neighbours helped me bury Mijo where he can continue to guard his territory from feline invaders.

I remember the scared, but feisty, abused cat that wandered up to my house and into my life and then basically took over, keeping me in line, demanding more petting and more treats - and shrimp and chicken. He wrapped his furry paws around my heart and dug those little claws in - which I loved.

Life certainly won't be the same around here. Mijo was a constant talker and let me know in more or less uncertain terms when it was time to turn out the lights and go to bed NOW. He also was very loving, but on his terms. How can I forget those swats from his paw when I had done something of which he didn't approve or the litter box needed immediate attention. Not to mention the cat fights where I was definitely the loser. Yeow!

Well, momma cat is taking a tranq and going to bed early in honour of Mijo - who would have loved that extra time to cuddle! Sweet dreams, sweet prince! Love always, June (your loving Momma Cat)

What a beautiful tribute to your handsome son Mijo. He surely did rule the roost but so did my Snookie. I wouldn't have had it any other way. They just take total control of our hearts and souls. I love his eyes in that picture, he was so sweet looking.
Ann

My Zen looked so much like your Mijo... the faces were a little different, but when I scrolled Mijo's picture and saw that ruff and those paws, it brought such a wave of emotion that I'm crying again. But in a good way, I think.

I do hope that Zen and Mijo are playing together by the bridge. What a pair they would make!

With much love,

Kate

A beautiful tribute to a beautiful kitty!

That was a beautiful tribute. He was such a handsome gentleman!

Thank you Ann, Kate, Steph, and Baby Hannah's Mom. I know that you know what I am going through, having lost your little babies, too.

And I can just see Mijo checking out Luba, Snookie, Chili Bean and Baby Hannah (from a safe distance of course) on a tree limb. Zen is probably up there with him. And they are all wondering what is taking us so long to join them.

What a beauty. WOW.

It's now been 15 weeks, Mijo. I was doing fine, but then several times today, something has reminded me of you. I MISS YOU BABY!

I am sorry it has been so hard for you today. It seems like we can be doing so well and here comes another flood of tears. Thinking of you and your precious Mijo.
Ann

I am so sorry for the pain you are feeling. I know it all too well. It has been 3 weeks today that my beloved dog of 15 years had to be put down due to a stroke. I never had such a bad day. Today is her Birthday and she would have been 17. I feel cheated of the last few weeks that would have given her this wonderful milestone. But I Love her and I hope to see her again at Rainbow Bridge. My best to you and I hope you feel a bit better soon. You Baby was absolutely BEAUTIFUL!

Elizabeth

Hello, Mijo, Little Baby Cat,

It's been a year ago today that I held you in my arms while you went to sleep forever, but it seems like only yesterday. Since then your Grandmomma Cat has joined you; in case you haven't seen her yet, please go look for her as I am sure she will have treats for you. She went to heaven on December 6, 2005. I can just hear her saying, "June, I think Mijo is hungry. Go get some shrimp out of the freezer and cook it for him." She missed her Grandbaby Cat, too, so you need to find her for a joyous reunion. She can introduce you to Grandpapa Cat; he always loved kitties, so I am sure he will have treats for you, too. You'll like being spoiled by them.

It's been a lonely time for Momma Cat without Mummy or you here with me. Know that rarely does a day go by that I don't think of you, Sweetie Pie! Momma Cat loves and misses her Sweetness, Mimi!

Love you always, June

Hi, Little Baby Cat,

Momma Cat still misses her Mijo. It doesn't seem possible, but it's been two years. In some ways, a lifetime and in others, yesterday. I love you, Mijo!

Hi, Little Baby Cat! Mama Cat still misses her baby, Mijo! At six tonight, I thought about the last time I held you in my arms, three years ago. I love you, Mimi!

Just stopped by to say how sorry I am. You had a beautiful baby and I wish you hugs and peace.

Your avatar picture shows such a beautiful baby. Anniversaries are too sad...that is the first thing I try not to remember because it is too painful. I just look at pictures of my babies..just knowing that at the picture time..all was well. Unfortunately I do remember the months of my 3 feral babies loss but I don't remember the date and I will not look it up. I think of them all the time anyway and send them love in thoughts.

I am sorry for your loss. If you have any photos....I would love to see them. If you want to see my Little Guy's pictures (and I think he also looks a little like your baby), go to Little Guy in Pictures and also Little Guy had a Sister....both in this section.

I saw you stopped by my topic in New Beginnings about Lucky...the shelter baby I adopted the day after Christmas. It is wonderful to see him galloping back and forth from one end of the house to the other ...just cause he feels good. My Little Guy used to do that a lot and as he flashed by, I yelled "Freight Train!". Now I just say "Lucky Train" when Lucky does it cause his action belongs to him. Take Care and join in some of the forum discussions...maybe with some stories of your baby that makes you smile.

P.S. I just went to the top here and saw the full photo of your baby. It just took my breath away. That is one to frame

Here's one of my favourite photos of Mijo, taking up as much of the bed as he could!

ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS!!! Any more pictures? Such a sweet baby!

His eyes are breathtaking. That is a great picture.

Thanks for the big smile you put on my face. I do love the pictures I see here as well as the stories, and hope you will bring more. When I take time out to accept what others are trying to share with me I truly get excited for them as well as myself because it just feels soooooooooooo good.

Hi, Baby Cat, my Mijo,

Momma Cat still loves her baby cat! Three and a half years, but I will always miss you! Kisses, June

u r a wonderful mummy, Mijo was blessed to have had you in his life.
beautiful pic

It's hard to believe it's been five years since I held you in my arms, little one. I love and miss you, Mijo!